What do you see? For those who have never seen this picture before, you most likely see either an Old Hag or a Young Socialite? Most likely you cannot see both of them. Whichever one you see, try now to see the other? If you have seen this picture a lot of times, like I have, most likely when you look at it now, you can see both, but here is the interesting thing, you CANNOT see both of them at the same time. To see one, you have to not see the other. Now, can you remember the first time you looked at this picture and could only see one image? Can you remember, the moment your perception changed and you suddenly saw the one you didn’t see before? It is a moment of awe. The way we see dictates the way we think. It changes the way we function in relationships and the way we do business. It determines who we hire and what we think about the people to whom we report. It effects how we vote and how we function as a country. It leads us to align with certain religious beliefs, and it influences our thoughts about right and wrong. We create stories about life from what we see; and our stories become powerful tools to either unite us or separate us from the world around us. All too often we use our stories to tell others, the way we view the world is right and consequently, the way anyone who sees the world differently is wrong. To see examples of this, we don’t need to look too far. Look at the political silos that separate us and prevent us from solving problems that together we could solve easily. But don’t stop there, everywhere we look, we see silos of separation. Look at our religious institutions; we speak of one God, but believe ours is the only right God. Look at our beliefs around the color of a persons skin, or the border they live behind, or the way they choose to express their sexuality, or their thoughts on the most compassionate way to treat an unwanted baby, or in climate change, or in any of the other places we disagree. What would happen if we were to consider the possibility, that what we see is not what is, it is just what we see? How would these words affect you? “Things are not what they seem“, We might come to see that the way we see the world is not the only way to see it; that people are not what they first appear to be; that we can not judge a book by its cover. What would happen if instead of trying so hard to have the right answers to the questions, we started to question the answers we have always given? Could it be possible that this one perceptual change could alter the way we function in the world, the way we relate to each other, and the way we come together to create a new future? Have a look at this TED TALK to see how perception in general changes everything.RESOURCE: PERCEPTION IS EVERYTHING TED TALK: Rory Sutherlandhttps://www.ted.com/talks/rory_sutherland_perspective_is_everything/transcript?language=en