The Moment You Know Your Life Has Changed Forever

"Heaven help me, I'm going to be a parent."

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Going into the ultrasound, I didn’t know how I’d react to seeing my unborn child for the first time.

Would I feel joy? Would I feel shock? Would I feel an overwhelming doubt that I could ever be capable of keeping another human alive?


I felt all of those things. 

But most of all, I felt gratitude. Because seeing that nearly indecipherable blob on the screen was a monumental victory for my wife, Emily, and me in our long, strange trip toward one day becoming parents.

In this video, we begin telling our long, strange story.

Thank you for joining us on this special journey.

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