All About Fathers

 Dear Friend,    I decided to do a little research for this year’s Father’s Day Blog.  My inquiry was informal and with people I knew. The age range was 14 to 84 with every decade in between represented.I decided I would use my subjects’ words to give honor to fathers for this Father’s Day Blog . I asked those in […]

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Dear Friend,    


I decided to do a little research for this year’s Father’s Day Blog. 
My inquiry was informal and
 with people I knew. 
The age range was 14 to 84 with
 every decade in between represented.
I decided I would use my subjects’ words 
to give honor to fathers for this Father’s Day Blog . 


I asked those in the study, 


What three words describe your father?” 


The answers were remarkably insightful; they revealed 
a true understanding of their fathers as well 
as how their fathers appeared to others.


I then went through my research notes and
circled the qualities that seemed to be repeated most often.


The results became

  “The Beloved Father.”


The words most mentioned were 
kind, supportive, good-looking, honest, 
calm, cool, collected, wise,
dependable, fun, loyal, and a role model.


Supportiveness was mentioned repeatedly. 
And I thought how wonderful that these once little ones remembered being boosted by their father’s shared “wisdom and kindness.” 
Being a role model,  often mentioned, encompassed a “strong and calm, cool and collected, and very kind” person.
As you might suspect, I really loved reading these heartfelt comments.


One of my favorite descriptors was honesty. 
How appreciated to come home to your family world 
and know a loving father will give you profound truths. 
In a world that gives many opinions that often vary, 
there  stands dad who is always honest in a supportive way, 
thereby leading his child in the right direction.


The people in this study repeatedly 
defined a good dad as being 
responsible,” “hardworking,” and 
loyal to his family.”


As children of these fathers, they all 
felt loved and appreciated. 
They described their fathers as solid 
people who were “reliable,” and “loyal.” 


Some in this study mentioned that 
their dads were good looking,
inspiring, and intelligent. All these 
wonderful character traits
added up to the most repeated term 
in this study: a role model.


Perhaps every word mentioned referred 
to a good “role model.” 
What can be better than a father 
who is honest and caring, 
supportive and selfless, yet 
wise in manner?  Not much! 


All the words mentioned showed a 
nobility of character worthy of being 
a son or daughter’s role model. 
A role model who affects who and what
we become and the people we allow into our lives.


I think those in this study used words
 I would note to describe my own father; 
he was hardworking, 
loved his  family, and valued education.


So, to all the Fathers out there,
please know your children will always 
remember what you gave 
to them as individuals,
love you for the “gift of you,” and 
will carry the specialness you gave to them 
throughout their lives.


Have a Happy Father’s Day, wonderful dad, 
and always know how appreciated you are!


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