Have you ever noticed how in a work situation, we know that being a ‘yes’ person might be a quick fix to keeping peace at bay, and get on the right side of our bosses but that in the long term, no ‘yes’ people have really ever made it to the top?
I have never worked with them but I somehow doubt very much the Sheryl’s, the Oprah’s or the Arianna’s of this world got to where they are today by being ‘yes’ women- doormats and people pleasers.
However when it comes to love, many women I come across in my private and professional life, act in a total different way to what they do in their successful careers: they do not know how to say no, they are not in the driving seat and they are not empowered.
A huge struggle for many women is to break free from this pattern often leading to non existent or disastrous dating and relationships that don’t last.
So how to change this pattern and go from being a ‘yes’ woman to an empowered one? Here are 3 easy steps to get there fast and make it to the top of the dating pyramid:
Practise, practise, practise. And notice the ‘yes’ that will come your way, rather than having you feeling deflated, rejected and disempowered. See in front of your eyes how being a ‘yes’ woman is a thing of the past.