Tips to Help you Pick the Best Domestic Abuse Lawyer

Finding a good domestic abuse lawyer might mean the difference between wasting time and losing money, and getting a ruling that you deserve.

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Domestic violence attorney

Domestic abuse or intimate partner violence (IPV), involves a range of harmful behaviors that may cause bodily harm, create fear or prevent a partner from doing what they want to do. It also includes forcing a partner to behave in specific ways that they do not wish to.

 Domestic violence, like any other form of violence, is a violation of human rights and is punishable by law. If you are a victim of abuse, a lawyer can help protect you and your loved ones through various ways, like custody changes or getting a restraining order.

The legal process is complex and can be intimidating, you don’t want to navigate the murky waters all by yourself. When it comes to choosing a domestic violence attorney to represent you, here are the top qualities that you should be looking for.

1. The lawyer must be readily available to serve you.

It is normal to be skeptical as to whether you should report the case to the authorities or not. However, the best choice is to do it. When you do, look for a lawyer who is ready to support you, and is accessible by phone. A good lawyer will always answer your calls even when you call them late in the night.

2. The lawyer must understand and believe in you.

Whether you are the victim or the accused, it is essential to find a lawyer whom you can relate with well. One who will understand your side of the story and believe in what you say. False allegations of domestic abuse are not uncommon these days. Unfortunately, the people within your circle are often the first ones to doubt you. The last thing you want is to work with a lawyer that makes the situation worse.  

3. Ask for past experiences and achievements of the lawyer.

There is no substitute for experience in the legal world. You should never settle for less. Since domestic violence cases aren’t the same – some involve divorce and child custody while others restraining orders or proof of innocence – you need a lawyer who’s capable of handling your type of case. Find out how long the lawyer has been in business, and the number of similar cases that they’ve won in the past. 

4. A good lawyer advises his clients.

Even if you are on the wrong, a qualified professional lawyer will give you advice on what to do and what not to do, in the event of a domestic abuse case. This is especially important, since you may be tempted to run away rather than face the court. A good lawyer will offer advice, and guide you on the right path to follow.


Domestic abuse is a severe criminal practice which is followed by similarly severe consequences. So it is essential to have the best domestic abuse lawyer if you want to win your case. However, you should be careful in choosing the right lawyer since some of them do not care about your needs; they are just after your money. 

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