Patience & gratitude

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People with mental and physical disabilities exists in order for the mentally and physicaly well beings to be thankful for what they have. But most of them never thanks for it eventhough they have almost everything. Instead they consider themselves as handicapped!

But at the same time mentaly and physicaly disabled has these disabilities so that they can overcome them and achieve success in their life despite of several impossibilities. Instead they too consider themselves as handicapped!

The paradox is that most of the disabled never likes to overcome their disabilities and most of the abled ones dont like to be grateful to what they have. Instead both of them have a same mindset of looking in the abilities and achievements who lives a luxurious life better than them. This act of thinking and perception retrogrades their optimism and forces their mind to criticise themselves which makes them more disabled than it was before & makes them disabled even if they weren’t.

My message is so simple. I don’t recommend to always look down at people lesser than you to find contentment in life nor do i recommend you to look at your role models to dream and desire to be like them to achieve success.

Its a naked truth from our day to day experiences that abilities & achievements makes people arrogant by not being content with what they have, ultimately making their life less satisfied. Similarly, disabilities and failures makes people ignorant of not realising the innate potential and the other possibilities for survival in life.

Life is always just. Disabilities exists so that man can find in it patience, preserverance and  endurance which drives him to a greater success. But no one wants it! Abilities exists so that man can find in it gratitude which drives him to more success. But no one even thinks of it!

Simplifying my secret to success is to explore more patience in difficult times and to explore more gratitude in blessed times. When you fall in love with both patience and gratitude, you will find that there is no difference between hardness and easiness of life. Both seems to you the same & thats the true nature of Life.

Have you ever played snake & ladder? Yes! But my game is so different and can never ever be like the rules of snake and ladder. The snakes in life are your abilities and easiness of life whereas ladders in life are your disabilities and hardness in life. Where power comes arrogance sneaks in & where weakness comes hope sneaks in!

Only wise men plays this game of his  tragedic Life better. Hold your self tight to these two traits and witness the magic in your Life. 

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