The Reflection.

Rather than the projection.

When we feel secure in who we are, this is what we reflect onto others. The confidence, the comfort, the calm. 

When we feel insecure in who we are, we project our thoughts onto others. Our doubts, our insecurities and our fears. 

When we understand that it is our own thoughts that make us frustrated and annoyed, angry and upset, we begin to see everything we can also do. Because we understand how our own minds can be for us too. 

Because we learned to think these thoughts. Which means we can also learn how to heal these thoughts too. 

From the Understanding. The Understanding of how we are the master of our own minds. You are the master of your own mind too. 

Which is why your mind can also learn how to receive. Receive the Understanding of how you are still learning too. Learning everything your own mind can also do. To return you to the confidence, the comfort and the calm of simply being who you are too. 


My name is Isabel Mar and I am your gentle guide back to you. Who you are. Not who you think you should be.

Sign up here for your Daily Purejoojoo. 

Daily reminders of everything Life already is and everything you already are too.

The Thrive Global Community welcomes voices from many spheres. We publish pieces written by outside contributors with a wide range of opinions, which don’t necessarily reflect our own. Learn more or join us as a community member!
Share your comments below. Please read our commenting guidelines before posting. If you have a concern about a comment, report it here.

Sign up for the Thrive Global newsletter

Will be used in accordance with our privacy policy.

Thrive Global
People look for retreats for themselves, in the country, by the coast, or in the hills . . . There is nowhere that a person can find a more peaceful and trouble-free retreat than in his own mind. . . . So constantly give yourself this retreat, and renew yourself.


We use cookies on our site to give you the best experience possible. By continuing to browse the site, you agree to this use. For more information on how we use cookies, see our Privacy Policy.