The Joy and Beauty of Christmas is in the Giving

How to Teach our Children it is Better to Give Than to Receive

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A Christmas Wish List that Santa will LOVE to receive!

Christmas with kids. A constant battle between wanting to give our children some nice presents, and wanting them to get that one awesome gift from Santa, but also wanting to teach them that Christmas isn’t all about getting – the joy and beauty is in the giving. Wanting to make nice memories for our kids, but trying our best to not get caught up in the consumerism and over-consumption that the holiday has turned into.

A friend of mine told me a story about a mom whose boys wrote their Christmas list in November. They asked for very specific Lego sets. She searched for these online, found them, and ordered them. Then the boys completely rewrote their list, and then rewrote it again. This mom didn’t know what to do. She wanted to get her boys the special gift that they really wanted, but they seemed overwhelmed and couldn’t even decide what that special gift was themselves.

I thought a lot about that story, and how common that is – kids watching commercials, and seeing ads, and thinking that they want – no, need – every new toy that catches their attention. How do we get them to focus, slow down, and really think about what Christmas should be about? How do we teach them that it is OK to want a nice gift, but to not get caught up in the “me, me, me” mindset that Christmas can turn into? How do we teach them that giving is better than receiving and that Christmas should really be about coming together with family and friends and sharing love and kindness?

In effort to help teach our children all that … I came up with this: A World-Changing Kids Christmas Wish List for Santa (the link will take you to a printable PDF).

Our Christmas Wish List asks kids to think about what they want, but balances that by asking them to think outside themselves to come up with three Acts of Kindness they can do. This will allow them to strengthen their kindness muscles. It also asks them to think of another child their age who does not have as much as they have, and asks them to come up with a gift that this child would like. This will allow them to strengthen their empathy muscles. It is my hope that this template will help us steer our children away from thinking that Christmas is only about presents and teach them the joy of giving to others. I know Santa will approve!

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