You’ve heard the adage: You are the average of the 5 people you spend most time with.
Let’s do a riff on that.
Think of the people you spend the most time with in these contexts:
Which version of you do they relate to:
I reckon our biggest impediment to progress is the percentage of #2’s we carry around (so true on so many levels…).
While the #2’s are well-intentioned, and their support feels comforting…when they become the predominant influence in your life, they can anchor you to your present state. The size and speed of your progress is hindered.
Therefore, your growth is directly correlated to the percentage of people in your life that speak to the Highest Self version of you.
These are the people who stand tall for you even when you’re unwilling to do so for yourself. They are the ones who call you on your BS.
They are the ones who push you beyond what you believe is possible.
It’s because they see YOU.
Not who you were, not who you are now, but YOU.
Challenge #1: Take 60 seconds and identify the people in your life who belong in category #3 – those who only relate to the Highest Self version of You.
Challenge #2: Identify a strategy to create one more #3 to each of the contexts – work, family, socially – in your life.
Your Highest Self Awaits.