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SIMPLY CONSCIOUSNESS: About the Gossiping, Blaming & Judging Game

In the end, judging, blaming and gossiping are just energies slowing us down on our path of evolution ...

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Dearest readers, a few days ago, while sitting at a busy café I couldn’t avoid listening to the various conversations of the people sitting around the tables close to mine…

The space was small and the voices were loud and what caught my attention was mainly the frequencies of the various voices as they were mostly tinted with judgments, anger, resentment, sadness, unfulfillment and at times they carried the tones of being victims and having to endure the full impact of whatever reality was inflicting upon them….

It became obvious to me that these lovely people were just expressing themselves in the moment through various different unresolved aspects of their own consciousness. So, after sending all my Love&Light to everyone, I clearly understood that the cafe was simply representing a microcosm, mirroring the much bigger reflection of the society we are living in and in which the gossiping, blaming and judging games are probably the most popular pastimes on our planet, to be found in abundance at all level of our culture…

And this is perhaps also the main reason of why I was originally inspired to write this very column and now to write this specific article in order to support all of us to have a deeper understanding, consciousness wise, of our own mechanisms as once we start to gossip, judge and blame others, basically, the energetic effect is the same of weaving ourselves within a spider web of negativity that ultimately will effect us as much as the ones we are pointing our finger at… And truly there is absolutely nothing constructive about this. We will not learn anything from it and no positive resolution shall be ever found…bottom line it is a waste of precious energy and time as the only way forward is the one to become much more aware for our own sake and the sake of everyone we care for…

What we are truly doing when we judge or blame others, for example, is in fact projecting on our family members, friends, husband wife, working colleagues, etc everything that is already within us but lies unsolved in our conscious awareness.

These are our own so called issues, habits, patterns, sets of beliefs that are ingrained within us, imbedded to the point that we simply accept that this is the truth of our being with all of these limitations, that this is just the way we are because we are so used to living bound by so much that does not serve us anymore but in fact only constricts us like an energetic straightjacket…

So consciously or unconsciously we are ruled by all this stuff that clings like superglue creating blind spots and ultimately blocking our awareness to grow with positivity instead of negativity. But if this is our wish, we can gracefully come unstuck once we open up more to a spiritual process of some kind, bringing more awareness to the way we may feel within and consequently to how we may behave because of the conditionings of all of our internal dynamics.

Starting to recognize what triggers us and how not to go so much into reaction is what will kick start the learning of mastering our consciousness instead of being dominated by all the mechanisms within it.

This conglomeration of old stuff creates veils, blind spots and ultimately negativity through thoughts, words and actions that very possibly may as well direct us towards all the gossiping, blaming and judging energies….

When gossip flies, the truth is often distorted as the “telephone” effect builds new layers of judgmental opinions and fabrications on top of each other. But still without giving it a second thought, with gossiping, we can seriously discredit someone that may be innocent and does not deserve to be attacked. Eventually all that is projected out will come back towards us in a form of Karma, maybe a mild form of karma but still powerful enough to block us from having something that we may really wish for but that doesn’t manifest because of our gossiping, blaming or judging habits….

I hope that through this simple explanation you all begin to have a better understanding of how dynamics works at energy level…

And how ultimately we must all take responsibility for all that we create in our reality…

So right now, I am inviting you to begin reflecting upon what pushes you internally to gossip about someone. Do you realize that is not just a bit of fun but you are actually projecting negativity upon another and that the negative energy will hit back at you eventually?

And what is the trigger that starts off the blaming of another instead of taking your own responsibility about what you created together energetically?

And are you aware that when you judge someone else it is because you are reflecting something that this other individual is simply exposing within you???

Maybe this is difficult to accept but we cannot keep ignoring the spiritual truth of how consciousness works if we truly wish to improve ourselves and therefore our reality….

Again is only a matter of taking that first step in looking at ourselves in a deeper and more constructive way but without the self-blaming and the self-judgment…

Ultimately we are all simply learning how to become the best version of ourselves and love and patience are required in order to shift our consciousness towards a much more holistic way of living life…

In the end, judging, blaming and gossiping are just energies slowing us down on our path of evolution and even more simply, slowing us down on our path towards living a more balanced, peaceful and fulfilled life…

And the choice as always is only our choice as we have the ultimate power to change or to remain stuck in our own many illusions and old habits…

All my Love&Light until next week

Claudia xxx

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