She Will Believe You

Pretty words without a foundation is abuse… are you an abuser?

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She will believe you… not because she is gullible, but because she does not think that you would ever utter such deep words if you were not sincere. When you tell her you want her, she will believe you. When you tell her that you are here for the long haul, she will believe you.

I know in this moment you are filled with emotions. I know that it feels good. But please keep in mind that emotions change quicker than the weather. Do not tell her those pretty words until you have been with her at her darkest moments and are still willing to stay. From the moment you utter those pretty words she will believe that you will be there no matter what, even when she is at her worst.

Please be wise enough to recognize that in the moment when she is at her best, you may just like the idea of her rather than the reality of her. She is pleasant and laughing with you now, you tell her that she is like no other you’ve been with… but please keep in mind that it is inevitable that the dark clouds will come, as she is only human.

Yes, she is human.

When you decide that you have had enough and tell her that you changed your mind, it will cut deep. She will have sleepless nights. She will pray that you will change your mind and come back to her. She will try to figure out what is wrong with her. She will remember the words that you told her and they will haunt her.

Yes, the moment feels perfect, so you want say perfect words, but please stop. Do not say anymore. For you, it might be words to fill the “perfect” evening, but for her, your words are everything.

When you are gone, she will fall hard from the giant pedestal that you placed her on with your perfect and pretty words that had no foundation to begin with. Those pretty words dripping from your lips are nothing but little lies that lead to destruction… Her destruction…

Until you are speaking those pretty words when she is the worst version of herself, do not toy with her. Do not dare say those words, as it is pure abuse. And yes… you are the abuser…

So I ask you to refrain from those pretty words, for if there is no foundation, you will be gone and she will be slipping all over your lies.

Yes, indeed, please remember she is a girl who will believe you… Choose your words wisely… She will believe you…  

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