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Roadblock got you? Facing a Lane Closure?

Damn! You missed the offramp. Ugh, another detour ahead? Road Hazard, use other lane. Construction zone, please go around. All Night Diner…closed for remodeling. If you are like me, you’ve seen these types of signs, or road blocks, and many more. At any given time during the day or week, there are obstacles, blockades, closures […]

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Damn! You missed the offramp.

Ugh, another detour ahead?

Road Hazard, use other lane.

Construction zone, please go around.

All Night Diner…closed for remodeling.

If you are like me, you’ve seen these types of signs, or road blocks, and many more. At any given time during the day or week, there are obstacles, blockades, closures or things that may give us pause and cause us to change our plan or intention. Be it inconvenient, or not, it is how we deal with these obstacles that mark our path.

It doesn’t matter if you are an educator, business person, student, athlete, musician, or other profession, hobby or work. But, when something blocks, derails, or stumps us and causes disruption to what may be mainstream, we DO have a choice: Do we shutdown, or find an Open Lane!

Shutting down, stopping, exploding and quitting can be commonplace for some, but unthinkable for many others. Why is that?

Is it a person’s Grit, perseverance, resilience and mindset? Or, is it the fact that many people are so overwhelmed, stressed, anxious, and busy, that they don’t see the possible Lane that is Open?

Today, in our world, unemployment is low, but our future is uncertain and rocky. We have new health scares, tumultuous financial markets, and so many other things beyond our control, happening all day. There are people that are very capable of handling these stressors with ease, smoothness, and without missing a step. But for many others, finding an open lane, another path, a different iteration can be quite difficult.

If you are like me, a podcast listener, a mindfulness practitioner, an exerciser, and one who strives to constantly reflect, grow and improve, then the reality is: it just isn’t easy. Sure, we may have budgets to meet, time constraints to follow, overhead to watch, bosses breathing down our necks, needy students clamoring for love and help, and so many other forces pulling us each and every direction. So, what do we do?

There are answers. I don’t know them all, but I am learning about new ones each day. Even when the chips are low and we are feeling down and nothing seems to work, we can find help and solutions. There IS an open lane. There IS another path. An untried route may be what you need. You may have read about, heard, and seen many of these examples and more, but here is a reminder of a few things that really DO work to find that Open Lane: 

Pause – Literally, stop what you are doing, find a place to let your mind go and close your eyes, even if only for a moment.

Ask – When we ask for help, we build our own wealth of tools and empower our strength of vulnerability.

List –  Instead of focusing on the 432 new emails, make a list of the 3-5 most imperative things, needs, people that need addressing. Many of the others you can put off, or delegate.

Breathe – 3 Deep and slow breaths, in through your nose, out through your mouth.

Move – Don’t hesitate. Walk, run, swim, cycle, jump. Do something. There are many apps out there for 5 minute movements, check them out.

Faith is stronger than Fear – Have faith in YOU. Know that you are not your last failure or dead end, but that you ARE worthy and capable. Fear will rob you of everything you have.

Read – Find a book, blog, article or magazine to clear your mind.

Learn – Take a class, a lesson, a refresher, or instruction in something new.

Laugh – Finally, the old saying isn’t just a saying. It is proven that “Laughter is the best medicine”. Watch Funny videos, read a comic, search for a funny movie, or look up some silly jokes. Laughter can release endorphins, burn calories, boost our immune system and relax the entire body.

All in all, this is nothing new, but please, I beg you – Don’t give up. We all thrive in our own way and your way is definitely best.

I’m here to help, as God knows I ask for guidance and help quite often.

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