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How My Presence In Egypt, While Experiencing Black Love, Gave Me An Authentic Understanding On Black Love and Seeing Traces Of the Universal In OWN's Black Love Series! #OWN #BlackLove

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The recent themes and vibrance of Black Love has become even more emergent among mainstream television, film, and digital artistry. Singers, songwriters, and others have highlighted Black American love stories, and their experiences. On an even greater note, authentic, Black American love stories operate on a different beat of their own. They are peculiar stories. The originality of their Being are housed, colored, and painted in the Blackness of that Deep South, Black American Church-based culture. That is Black America, in all of her originality. It had been birthed and preserved from Black American mothers, fathers, maidens, and heroes, who cultivated, crafted, and nourished the wellness of Black American, Church-based culture. There are many endeavors pertaining to that. Beautiful magic, which had illuminated from the sacred networks of that Church-based culture, and its use to re-birth and preserve the ways, movements, and delights of this peculiar group of people.

“The atmospheres, elixirs, and sacred teachings of Egyptian landscapes are wise. There is no room for those who rape her gardens, sneak through her gardens, and misconstrue time, in order to serve purpose of the ego. The sacredness of this land requires that a person move through the times; understanding how wellness is consistent with it.

Lauren Kaye Clark

In having lived, worked, studied, and volunteered in Egypt for a little more than 9 years, it must be known that love is tested. This is especially true if it is foreign love. And, it is even more true for Black American people, and the traces of our whispers, within this particular land. It is also real for those, who are Universally ordained and designed, within this particular spacing. In a terse, amount of words, authentic Black American love (and other Black Love couplings) stories require more energy, in achieving stability, in the midst of attempts to attack it. And yes! That includes overseas.

In Egypt, the greatest Black American love stories have required a level of authentic representation; in attire, culture, and tongue. Of course, we have to be cognizant about the term “Black.” Historically, socio-politically, and economically, the term has been created to define the Black American experience. It defines a people, who have not had their own country. Furthermore, there have been other transitions between the term, in documenting the Black American experience. Always know, that in order for a people to be considered authentic, they must wear their culture proudly. Simultaneously, there must be other Black Love stories from the African Continent, Nubia, and other landscapes of the world.

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One of the magical elixirs of Egypt, is that she highlights people for who they are, when they move to this land. Egypt differentiates what is real, from what is fake. Furthermore, she comes to realize a difference between those who really have a connection to her Being, and those who exploit her essence. The atmospheres, elixirs, and sacred teachings of Egyptian landscapes are wise. There is no room for those who rape her gardens, sneak through her gardens, and misconstrue time, in order to serve purpose of the ego. The sacredness of this land requires that a person move through the times, and understands the wellness, consistent with it. Those challenges will be more than “difficult.” Furthermore, they will be more than having a hard time, and having to stand on one’s own. On the contrary, a person will have to overcome a different series of impossibilities, in order to master the knowledge of this land. There will be no quick routes or fixes. If you think you will “deceive” the Universe, prepare for a valuable lesson. Love is no different. Black Love, and especially Black American love is of no exception. In Egypt, that is even more true.

When Black love is truly, of love’s Divine, its purpose is to cause an earthquake in breaking down barriers against love. In the world of travel, especially, travels to Egypt, there are wonderful arenas for Black Love to spread that love; all the while enhancing its nourishment.”

Lauren Kaye Clark

One of the blessings of moving through Egyptian lands, for a long time is the mastery of patience. It means going through it, right in the thick of Cairo-the harshness and the wisdom it entails. That’s a testament of love’s truth. One cannot help, but to move through that richness, no matter how harsh it has been. In Egypt, you know if a coupling of Blackness is real, when efforts are made to attack it. That does not relate to inviting attacks, due to conflict, within. Not at all. It means attacks happen because a coupling is so powerful, and has the power to elevate love within that given spacing. For people to be awakened from the slumber of being unloved, understanding that such is abnormal, is powerful. Unfortunately, some have normalized love’s slumber for so long, they think its absence is normal. They become angered that not everyone has allowed love to sleep. As opposed to engaging in the work of healing, and openness to love, one becomes troubled in a false barrier, which appears inescapable.

In countries and spaces, where Blackness is deemed void of love, there is shock when such love becomes vigilant. Not only is it a shock, but it is deemed forbidden, “unnatural,” and grotesque. When Black Love is authentic, and its coupling is not dressed in the ways of the masses, it is attacked. Yes! There are such tests in Egypt. For a Black American woman to wear her natural hair, open and exposed, while with a Black man who does, is met with difficulties and challenges, by those who see it as a negative!

Another auspicious moment, concerning the wellness of Black Love stories in Egypt, is that it stems as a source of inspiration. You know what? Reflecting upon that very statement, a moment just happened. The term “inspiration” is an understatement for power of Black Love’s authenticity in Egypt. Venturing through my own, personal love stories in Cairo (and other spaces), I observed how that love was to be a source in awakening healing for others. If those surrounding us were in a condition of pain, that love or display of romance, forced them to become uneasy in their emotional state. It should have. I would notice discomfort in a number of people’s observation in the displays of love towards me by a Black man. The question is why? Was there discomfort in knowing that one had been denied love for such a long time? Did the pains of racism cause one to become angered that someone (especially, a Black man) could see desire and gentility in authentic representations of Black femininity? For whatever reason discomfort is observed, the point is for those who have been malnourished from love, to examine why. Furthermore, in Egypt, the purpose of Black Love is to awaken those hidden energies of love throughout the land; especially, when connected to Universal power.

(Photograph By Local Personnel; Edits By Lauren Kaye Clark)

One of the beauties of authentic, Black love-which is rendered in truth and audacity-is that it inspires love, by those secretly craving it. When Black love is truly, of love’s Divine, its purpose is to cause an earthquake in break down barriers against love. In the world of travel and especially, travels to Egypt, there are wonderful arenas for Black Love to spread that love, in places and spaces, where it may be malnourished. The purpose of Black love is to inspire; not to display as a parade of envy. Nevertheless, there are secret telling to the wellness of love; while ensuring others understand that this realm exists. Such is one of the lessons I learned about the true significance for Black Love, and especially in a sacred land, such as Egypt. In this spacing, Black love is no game. It is not meant for vanity, idolatry, deceit, manipulation, entrapment, an opportunity, or anything outside of the rawness of love. Because Black love, in its authentic form, is extremely powerful, it will be attacked in ways one cannot imagine. When you hear those intense stories of Black Love being attacked in Egypt, then you will know it is real. You will also know that it was sacred and has truly been blessed by ancient and modern literature. When you have truly navigated this land, you will know what’s real.

As it comes to the ancient energies Egypt, there must be careful analysis in our definition of realm. What may be love, may be deception, masked as love. Ancient traditions have foretold of those utilizing this ancient land for the image of its spiritual riches, more so than the practicality. You will run across such imagery. There are those tales of those crafting a picturesque view of love, or manipulating time’s imprinting for reasons other than love. Be careful. Yet, love!

We have heard of those legendary love stories of ancient times. In ancient Egypt, we know of great royal, love stories, which have painted our hearts and minds. Decorated our dreams that we may invite such a love into our Spirits. Yet, there are hidden pictures to these love stories. For in previous times, there were barriers to such. If you have crafted and navigated Egyptian landscapes properly, and with the patience, efforts, and work, that is necessary, you will know that authentic, Black love is tested. It has to be. One cannot spread love among the land, and the people within the land, if it is not true love. However, once that love passes numerous tests and barriers, there is still the obligation of blessing the land, with that love. This authentic, coupling of Black love, which was grown in verbal and spiritual truth, uses the sacredness of that love to heal the land.

One of the beauties of authentic, Black love-which is rendered in truth and audacity- is that it inspires love, by those secretly craving it. When Black love is truly, of love’s Divine, its purpose is to cause an earthquake in breaking down barriers against all love. In the world of travel and especially, travels to Egypt, there are wonderful arenas for Black Love to spread that love, in places and spaces, where it may be malnourished. The purpose of Black love is to inspire; not to be parade of envy. Nevertheless, it is a secret telling to the wellness of love; while ensuring others understand that this realm exists. Such is one of the lessons I learned about the true significance for Black Love, and especially in a sacred land, such as Egypt- even in Nubian landscapes. In this spacing, Black love is no game. It is not meant for vanity, idolatry, deceit, manipulation, entrapment, an opportunity, or anything outside of the rawness of love. Because Black love, in its authentic form, is extremely powerful, it will be attacked in ways one cannot imagine. When you hear those intense stories of Black Love being attacked in Egypt, then you will know it is real. When you have truly navigated this land, you will know what’s real.

https://www.google.com/search?q=black+love+documentary&hl=en&prmd=vin&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwiWpYvrosHsAhVFZN8KHRQxBlMQ_AUoAnoECAQQAg&biw=360&bih=512&dpr=2#imgrc=bNvrzB5Hs0ErEM; Edits By Lauren Kaye Clark

When connecting this with OWN’s television series, “Black Love,” the authenticity of its meaning is presented for others to see. Living in an ancient nation as Egypt, for so long, you come to understand the very processes and depth of Black Love, on a Universal realm. Through its authenticity, it does manipulate the Universal for self-gain. It is supposed to reach the Universe, so that healing radiates to humanity. Black Love is also based on the protection of love and Sisterhood. It does not hurt, demean, or mistreat other women for male attention, affections, and access to resources and benefits. It also nourishes the feminine, as she is the very embodiment of love. And so, as I observe certain reflections of Black Love on the Oprah Winfrey network, I become reacquainted with every bit of my sensory. After all, love is patient. Love is kind. And when you know love is real, you feel it. You feel. So, when watching the series of OWN’s Black Love series, close your eyes and allow the feelings to be your guide. The verbal stories themselves are revelations of their own. You will know the truth when you feel it. Blackened in love, in finding love’s Universal.

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https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.nytimes.com/2020/09/03/arts/television/black-love-season-4-own.amp.html; Edits By Lauren Kaye Clark
https://www.google.com/amp/s/tvseriesfinale.com/tv-show/black-love-season-four-coming-to-own-in-september/amp/; Edits By Lauren Kaye Clark

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