Is True Love Unconditional?

Unconditional Love..

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To truly love someone is when you fall in love with a particular person and accepted them with their flaws and challenges. You try changing their flaws and with every bad thing they might have you might still stand by them till the end of the time but to love someone unconditionally means loving someone regardless their mistakes and short comings.

When you love someone unconditional you don’t try changing them to what you want them to be instead you try as much as possible to love them regardless their flaws or probably don’t even see their flaws at all, to you they are perfect for you. Loving someone unconditionally is not common nowadays, of course people still fall in love but can’t stay in love.

Unconditional love can be considered as undiluted and impede kind of love, unconditional love involves bounded and limited romantic blindness, you have to be blind to your partner mistakes before you can start having unconditional love for them. You learn to take your mind and soul away from their mistakes and their flaws, they become something you treasure.

You can be in love and still not like a particular thing about your partner and you start working aimlessly to change that part of them, when you start looking for ways to change your partner mistakes or you start seeing their flaws then it can’t be called unconditional love, right you are in love but it is not an unconditional one.

People who have experience unconditional love will tell you that its one of the sweetest kind of love as you both see each other as a perfect couple who never make mistakes, they describe this kind of love as a boundless love which can make them fly knowing fully well that they won’t fall.

Compromises, Moderation and Boundaries are not an element of unconditional love. You can truly be in love with someone and still not give them space to explore, when there is limitation in love then it’s not an unconditional love.

Have you ever as yourself if you are still going to be in love with someone who went against you, Your believes and value? Will you still consider them as your life partner, if yes you are unconditionally in love with the person but if no it might just be true love, your partner never go wrong in your eye if you have unconditional love for that person.

Being truly in love with someone can be misquote as unconditional love because you felt you don’t have any issues with your lover behavior and you have see him or her for who they are but in some cases we all have our gage and you only felt your love is an unconditional love because you haven’t gotten to that period when you will start seeing your partner for who they are then you will realize that you can’t take their bad side any longer then you will know that your love have never been an unconditional love from the start.

Having an unconditional love can’t be learned, you don’t have to read true love quotes to have experience of unconditional love, it is something that comes naturally and in most cases you can’t fight it for any reason in the world. Unconditionally love happens without your heart getting prepare for it and like wise true love comes when you least expect.

You don’t go out searching for love, love will find you. Finding an unconditional love can be quite challenging but it exists. Loving your partner truly is fun but when you find unconditional love it’s a blessing. True love can’t be classified as unconditional love as it’s two different things that just look like almost the same feelings.

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