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Virtue, Contentment, Complacency & Indifference in the American Work Place

Which Quality of Character Speaks to Whom You are Presently vs. Whom You Might Want to Become?

1776 Liberty American Virtue Coin
1776 Liberty American Virtue Coin

Titles & Labels at Work:

A waiter, bartender, chef, butler, police officer, and concierge are all careers in service. These individuals often chose purposefully roles that have site-specific titles. Not every job is promotable. Nor is everyone inclined to need a title that evokes panache to validate their professional self-worth.

Does a concierge need to become a chief concierge in-order to legitimize their career? Does a cook have to strive to be a chef? A waiter vs. maî·tre d, a bartender vs. sommelier, teacher vs. a dean, a seamstress vs. a tailor, a butler vs. a majordomo. Is a police officer looked down upon if they do not yearn to be a sergeant?

Do you define your professional self-work and prestige by your title?

Below are a few thoughts to ponder:

  • does your title authentically represent who you are as a person or does it matter – is it realistic to have them in synchronicity
  • does your title convey the work you are doing
  • is your salary comparable to what you know is your worth or does it make you feel undervalued
  • do you find yourself saying internally I AM making $ and my title is X, therefore, this is who I AM
  • what are the criteria for your inner fulfillment and self-worth in your job
  • why does complacency in the workplace have a dual connotation
  • why does complacency often infer apathy
  • if contentment means we are satisfied why does this suggest that we do not want more, are not more, and cannot achieve more

Dead End Job – What Does This Really Mean?

  • your job is not promotable
  • you have no other skills or talents
  • nothing more for you to learn on the job, it is not challenging, and you have it mastered
  • very often routine tasks that are repetitive can become monotonous and we become lazy, indifferent and careless
  • do we need to demonstrate a perennial and aspirational drive for more to be seen as promotable
  • maybe it is us that are in a dead end mindset vs. the job label

Ways We Can Evoke Virtue in Ourselves While at Work

  • are you doing absolutely everything you can in your present job to be efficient, collegial, professional and civilized
  • are you cultivating skills and learning new knowledge for the job and for yourself
  • are you objectively critiquing and challenging your own performance
    • discreetness, kindness, grace, patience, lack of anger or being retaliatory; have never been more needed, appreciated and highly regarded than now in the workplace
  • seeing someone for whom they are sans their title is liberating
  • is your job a maze or a labyrinth

Virtue can be demonstrated in all tasks and actions at work


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