How To Tell If You Have Caught A Cancer Man’s Eye

With a Cancer man, the hardest stage is the very beginning. Cancer is notoriously shy, and it is very hard for him to approach a woman who he does not know, no matter how attractive she is to him. For this reason, he often misses opportunities for love and romance. This means that if you […]


With a Cancer man, the hardest stage is the very beginning. Cancer is notoriously shy, and it is very hard for him to approach a woman who he does not know, no matter how attractive she is to him. For this reason, he often misses opportunities for love and romance. This means that if you are interested in a Cancer man, you may need to break the ice. Here is how to tell if a Cancer man is interested in you.

You will see him sneaking glances at you

It is very hard to tell if a Cancer man is interested in you. His hard shell makes him look like he is annoyed and uninterested even if he wildly attracted to you. Because of this, you will need to look for subtle cues. One of the telltale signs he likes you is if you catch him sneaking glances at you out of the corner of your eye. If you try to make eye contact with him, however, he will quickly look away. If he does this once, it may not mean anything. If you see him doing it several times, though, it is a pretty good clue that you have caught his eye.

At this point, the best thing to do is to go and attempt a conversation with him. Keep it noncommittal and friendly, and do not let him know that you saw him looking at you.

He will talk to you

When you approach a Cancer man and start to talk, you will know pretty quickly if he is interested in you. If he talks to you, you can be pretty sure that he likes you. If he does not like you, he will give you a few curt responses, and that will be the end of the matter. He generally will not talk to someone just to be polite. Now, depending on just how shy he is, he may not talk much even if he likes you. There will be a difference, though. If he is just shy, he will stammer a bit and seem visibly nervous. He will still be open to you and pleasant.

He will try to look after you

One of the classic signs that a Cancer man likes you is if he tries to look after you. He will notice if you are uncomfortable or seem sad or nervous. If you tell him something you are having difficulty with, he will give you advice or try to help you in some way. He may try to order you a drink or your favorite food. If you seem cold, he may offer you his jacket.

He will invite you to his place for dinner

In the early stages of your relationship with a Cancer man, the Holy Grail is when he asks you to dinner at his place. This is especially the case if he wants to cook for you. Dinner at his house may not be a fancy or romantic affair, but it very well may be one of the best meals you have eaten in your life. Cancer men are known to be some of the best cooks in the zodiac. Some of them are even professional chefs. He will be paying special attention to what and how much you eat, and if there is something that you don’t like, it is best to tell him politely. He wants to please you, and his feelings will be hurt if you leave something on your plate and he does not know why.

How To Know If A Cancer Man Likes You When You Are Dating

When it comes to romance, the Cancer zodiac sign is claimed as a sign very difficult to figure out.

Similarly, it’s not easy to determine the special feelings of a male Cancerian towards someone. This needs a process. He is vulnerable and often feels unsafe and unsecured in a romantic relationship. He needs to know whether he can trust you, the woman he is falling for.

Cancer man has a lot to give and of course expects the same from others.

Be initiative when being with him; let him know you’re truly caring, from the very small, little things. Your Cancer will surely love that. In addition, you should boost his confidence, not making him feel like living in an empty shell or he will never make a move.

Let’s go check signs a Cancer man likes you, so you can realize his inner feelings without being confused.

He spends his time for you

Is he comfortable around you? Or, does he get stressed and pressured?

A Cancer man in love wants to make his time for you – it’s because he feels happy when being with you. He will determine his feelings after considering how he actually feels around a woman.

If you keep seeing him show up around you and tell you that he is excited when both can hang out together, this is one of signs hinting that he likes you a lot.

Consider yourself lucky as a Cancerian will spend a lot more time to stay by your side, maybe his whole lifetime.

He introduces you to his parents

Born under the family sign of the zodiac, his parents are very important to a Cancer man. If he takes you home and introduce you to his family, you can be sure that this guy is definitely into you.

He will never let a fling meet his parents.

When deciding to bring you home, this means that he has seen something special about you, like the future wife material, for example.

Feel rest-assured if you’ve met his family before or if he is preparing a meet up – this is an obvious sign proving that he not only is serious about you but only wants to have you in his future.

He opens up his feelings with you

Cancer man is famous for being extremely secretive and tends to hold in his feelings and emotions. Yet, once this man expresses all of his innermost sentiments as well as secrets to you, meaning he totally falls in love.

He has a strong self-protective urge, and not anyone can understand the depth of his emotions.

Before giving someone the key to his heart, he will lock his inner feelings into a dark room and not allow people to step inside. If you are able to gain his trust completely and utterly, you will surely have him.

He shows his love through actions

Cancer man is not verbally expressive in love; on the other hand, his actions speak louder than words. When he wants to show his feelings to you, he’ll choose to display it through body language and actions.

So, carefully look at his gestures and you will know what he is feeling about you.

Showing his huge romance through actions, plus manifesting affections are pretty important to him.

If he likes you a lot, he won’t hesitate to express it openly despite his reserved characteristic. He is normally not a straight-forward person when it comes to his feelings; and it often drives you crazy to read his mind or determine his interest.

Surprisingly, only if falling for someone, he has a tendency to shower that person with his romantic gestures; from giving you flowers and chocolates, to having a dinner with you at your favorite restaurant…all are his actions in love. ​

This guy, whenever having the chance, will do little things to please you. Hugging you, kissing you or making you laugh, you surely can’t get enough of his romantic gestures.

In general, this wonderful lover is incredibly attentive to your needs. Sensitive at heart, he will give you both his love and most priority.

He will act jealous and possessive

Is Cancer man the jealous type? Does he get jealous easily?

Well, not as much as Taurus men or Scorpio men, but the Cancer male can become jealous and possessive at certain times.

Keep in mind that his jealousy will be displayed on the surface only if he grows special feelings with you. He may not admit his sentiments officially; nonetheless, he will seem like not pleased when seeing another man shows his affections towards you.

Once his eye is on you, you are evidently seen as his mate whom he does not want to share with anyone. He only brings his possessiveness onto the play if he believes in the connection between you and him. If necessary, he will do whatever it takes to protect that connection.


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