Life is a collection of countless experiences, sometimes they occur according to your choice, sometimes not. The most dominating are the ones that you usually consider negative. When they occur, oh only God can save you. But why all the time chasing him for every small and big, silly and serious cause? Besides, God helps those who help themselves. In tough times, you cannot expect the almighty to come to you and give a choice of solutions. You pick the one and the tough time is absolutely gone. NO, sorry, knock knock, you are living in a real world and you have to be self-reliant to find the solutions of your own problems.
With right amount of motivation, you can always turn the bad into good. At least participate in the race, success and failure are the stages that come on the later part. Although, fighters are never judged by what they win or what they lose, they are admired for their zeal to fight.
Why not learn from the difficult circumstances. After all, you cannot learn to use a tool until you get into a situation where its use is required.
Here is a bunch of challenging situations of life in which you can learn to stand strong.
Health issues – The zeal to live every moment helps
Small, big, health issues always walk with us. They come and go but come back. From a small backache problem to a lethal disease like cancer, life can be rude anytime. A huge part of population of the planet earth is unhealthy and the issues like global warming are destined to contribute to the worst case scenario. The WHO reports can be your mirror anytime to see how bad the health issues can become in the coming years.
Never lose hope no matter how severe is a disease. Play your part and contribute for environment. There are people who succeeded to survive despite the disastrous diseases. Many celebrities that you see on the big screen have earned fame not only for their work in the glamour world but also for their strength to fight a dangerous disease. Angelina Jolie a cancer survivor, she still looks gorgeous and is a great mother and an actor. Whenever you feel down due to any health issue, read and learn about such people. Not necessarily a celebrity always, you may get some great examples around you. Negativity feeds health complications and to stay as well as become healthy, feed your mind with positive thoughts. Get surrounded with positive people.
Unemployment – A phase that will pass, look for rational solutions
Oops! Money is the backbone of materialistic life and your job delivers you that precious thing. But when you lose a job, life becomes so heavy. Right? Daily expenses, grocery, loan instalments, bills, car repair, school fee oh God, what not. Is there any end to this list? May be no, and the very notorious unexpected expenses like to give their share to make the situation even more pathetic. The fears are many, if you do not pay the obligations on time they are sure to become monstrous and as big as a mountain. This can degrade your credit score and then taking future financial can become even more difficult. It seems as if all nightmares are desperate to come to life and spoil your financial as well as personal life.
To get over this mess, you need to understand first that this is just a phase of life and not the whole life. Sooner or later, you are sure to get another job and for that why to feel the extreme of depression. In fact, work on the most rational and practical solutions. As employment has its first effect on finances, try to find escape windows on that end. Take a look at your savings, are they sufficient to get through the tough times, if not then it is sometimes not bad to say ‘I need help’. Take some financial help from a friend of family member. However, you cannot ask for a big amount, as the needs are many. But don’t worry, way outs can be still there. The loan choices are versatile now, as humans have invented advanced solutions for their own well-being. New age lending is an example of this that facilitates easy funding through the loan for unemployed. Apply for these short-term loans that are available without any obligation of guarantor and collateral. Online procedures can help you get the funds instantly if you have a reliable repayment capacity. Yes, you do not have an income to show due to job loss, but your salary slips from the last employer, bank statements, any additional income can bring loan approval.
Natural calamity driven destruction – Things can be reconstructed
This is something out of your control. Natural calamities like flood, earthquake, fire in the wild, volcano eruption, landslide, avalanche etc. are out of control incidents. They can be predicted but still sometimes, in fact many a times human become vulnerable in front of them. If you are a victim of any such situation and have lost everything then make sure that you do not lose one precious asset i.e. HOPE. Yes, it is easy to say but difficult to do, but do you have a better choice? Perhaps, NO, life should never stop and it can happen only without your undying zeal. Help others despite your own problems and then you will find it easy to get out of the mess. Helping others gives a deep satisfaction.
‘Move on’ and ‘keep moving on’ are the two things that can help you win even the toughest battle of life. Forget not to celebrate small moments of happiness, as smile is the best and biggest medicine of all pains.