Dealing with fake friends can be quite challenging and having been very attached to them without knowing their initial intention is what makes it worst. Have you been close to someone that you consider them as your best, share secret and heart desires with them without knowing that they don’t really wish you well, it is very heart breaking isn’t? and getting to know your fake friends can be a very sad experience knowing that you have truly love that person and you have share your bad and good time with them.
One good achievement about fake friends is knowing their intention towards you and dealing with them is up to you to decide. You don’t need to worry about bad and fake friends all you need to know is how to play your card well. Here are few ways you can deal with bad friends.
Don’t open up about your ideas: Don’t tell them things that are related to your success, fake friends will always find something wrong in your great ideas. They don’t want you to make it bigger than them so they will always make effort to bring down your idea. Don’t tell them thing you are planning or they will badmouth it. Don’t talk about your plans let them see it when you achieve it. Its better that way.
Point out their mistakes: There is no need trying to patch up bad friends’ mistakes once they make the mistake try as much as possible to point it out instantly. Don’t make them feel you trying to avoid them. Tell them their mistakes and try as much as possible to free your mind instantly.
Never make extra effort to make them happy: There Is no point working hard to make a fake friend happy because at the end of the day it won’t be appreciated. Focus more on your own happiness and if they find reason to be happy with the little thing you do for them its fine and if it’s otherwise don’t take it to heart because you can never be appreciated anyway.
Be more concern about your own growth: Focus more on your growth. Work on getting to your greater height, leave fake friends alone and don’t try to carry them along while you are working towards your success when you finally make it they will come around.
Don’t tell them your top secret: Avoid telling fake friends your secret, know that your secret is not save with them. No matter what you tell them it is never save with them. Try as much as possible to never tell fake friend your top secret and never make mistake of gossiping about other people with them.
Be careful while relating with them: Be very careful about your behavior around them, they will always look for ways to be annoyed with you. If you don’t behave well around them they will always see reasons to pick up issues with you.
Don’t argue with them: avoid unnecessary argument with fake friends. Know that your idea and point will never make sense to them. Instead of trying hard to make them reason with you ignore them and face your opinion.
Have a polite conversation with them: Having a polite conversation will help you deal with fake friends. If there is a need to have conversation with them, try as much as possible to be very polite with it and trust me it will reduce any form disagreement between you too. If you notice that your friend is too fake to handle, ignore them totally.