How the Strongest Connections are Built

The surprising reason why some conversations forge better connections than others

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Ever wonder why it is so easy to connect with some people, and like pulling nails with others? Have you ever met someone you had so much in common with, but the conversation fell flat? On the other hand, have you ever met someone you had nothing in common with, but you forged a strong connection almost immediately?

What’s going on?!!

Is it luck or fate or something else?

As it turns out, there is a very concrete reason why some conversations are more likely to build strong connections than others. This has to do with the level the conversation begins at, and whether you go up or down from there.

Click the video below to learn how connection really works . . .

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