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Having Friends Vs Not Having Friends

It’s really a big decision whether to have friends or not. Because in both cases, it may encourage you to be stronger and successful or it may also distract you from achieving your goals. What if you have friends? You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with. – Jim […]

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It’s really a big decision whether to have friends or not. Because in both cases, it may encourage you to be stronger and successful or it may also distract you from achieving your goals.

What if you have friends?

You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with. – Jim Rohn

It means that when you have friends, they are surely gonna influence you. Your desires and goals will no longer be yours. Even they will control what you should believe and what you shouldn’t.

It’s a fact that everything around us has a great impact on our lives. For example, when you listen to music, your mode and even your actions change. It’s also noticed that people in the mountains are harder in their belief system.

All of these are effects of our surroundings on us. This kind of impact is natural but you’re not interested in such influences.

But with friends, the case is different. A friend is a person whom you trust. You share your feelings and look for suggestions. These suggestions have a great impact on your life. Because you’re looking for a change.

That’s why your approach is an average of the 5 people you’re close with. If your friends believe in you or your idea – you will surely make that happen.

But if they didn’t believe in you or they couldn’t visualize then it will become a great hurdle for your achievement. So while having friends you must think who can have a positive impact on your life. If you still don’t have an idea of how to chose a friend then the following good friends quotes can help you to understand who is a true friend.

What if you don’t have friends?

When you don’t have friends, it has both a negative and positive impact on your life. The positive thing is that they can’t influence your approach negatively. Your approach and belief system will purely depend on your education.

But the negative aspect is that you will feel alone and couldn’t share yourself with anyone. It’s a fact that we sometimes need some motivation to be strong and friends are the best motivators.

But it doesn’t mean that only for motivation you should go for friends. You can also read quotes about being strong to be strong but it’s always good to not have friends than having bad friends.

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