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Five ‘Crazy-things’ in a relationship that is worth time making for

Did you know you can bring the lost love in a relationship in just 20 seconds?

How? Then read on!

When you honestly found the right one for you, it’s easy to jump directly to the next level, without further ado. Trust me, everything seems beautiful, and there’s nothing wrong if you guys are thinking to move-in-together because when you know, you know. Chances you are living the best time of a healthy relationship, and doing all the sweet things which all crazy couple swear by. To be fair, there is nothing wrong to cherish your partner with doing crazy little stuff like hiking, travelling to your favourite partner spot, attending a family wedding, and so on and soon you’ll see how these very simple habits are to incorporate into your relationship.

Though life moves fast, and we so caught up much in our daily routines and responsibilities that we forget about prioritising our partners. Sooner we lost interest, spend less quality time, forget the date nights, special Friday nights spends alone and solemnly movie nights vanished, all under the blink of an eye. But, you guys can bring the lost charm back, just by giving right time to right things. For instance, if your partner is angry and you don’t have much time to buy beautiful rose bouquets and see the magic! You and your partner might experience a whole lot happier than ever before. Here are the five crazy kinds of stuff which you guys can do to bring the love back in a relationship – approved by the therapist.

Spend Time Together- turn off your phone

You are sitting with your partner; he/she is discussing future responsibilities, mortgage for the home and other general talks and you are scanning yourself through Twitter & Facebook. Well, this could a sign of trouble and ignorance, your partner might not like this behaviour of yours and chances are your guys end up fighting.

According to psychologist Alicia H. Clark who said that continually staring at your phones while with you SO nonverbally convey to them that what you’re doing on your phone is more important than them. Clark suggested spending time together where you turn off, mute, or put your phone out of reach. “This allows your partner your full attention and sends the nonverbal message that time together is important,” Clark said.

Ask more questions?

 

What are your plans for today? How your day at work was, was it right or not? Is everything fine? Asking these questions to your partner reconnects you with them and chances are you guys get to spend some quality time together.

According to relationship expert Esther Boykin who said this habit could help both of you to become more engaged. “It’s so easy to get to the end of the day and say to each other, ‘I don’t know, my day was fine. I’m tired,’” Boykin said, “But being curious about your partner prompts you to be a little bit more reflective, which also opens the door to being more connected.”

Sensual touch!!

Touching is very important in a relationship. It keeps the spark alive and makes both of you feel good. A little bit is always helpful, so never forget the power of magical touch, a goodbye forehead kiss or s few second hugs sometimes can be a life saviour.

According to Debra K. Fileta, a licensed professional counsellor who specialises in relationship and marital issues penned an article for RELEVANT where she suggested making touch an essential part of your relationship. Fileta said even if you have to schedule times to hold hands, do it. According to Fileta, an act of physical touch can show you’re SO that you notice and desire them.

Supporting each other

Keep building up your partner, stand with them like a rock and assist them in bringing dreams into reality, and that’s what a happy couple do.

According to relationship expert, Esther Perel who noted happy couples is those who “treasure the happiness of the other even if it has nothing to do with them.”

Saying “Good night” with “Kisses.”

 

No matter, how upset is your partner, a sweet, good night with a romantic kiss can delve all the issues. So, couples get this in your habit.

According to Mark Goulston, M.D., F.A.P.A, “This tells your partner that, regardless of how upset you are with him or her, you still want to be in the relationship.” Next time you’re about to doze off without saying those words, take a little effort and speak up.

Keep the Cuddling game always on!

 

Never let the issues affect you’re sex-life! Most of the couples end up their longing-relationship or a happy married life just because of the lack of sex. So, you guys don’t let this happen to you. Cuddle up with your partner, and you can also spice up the romance with using adult toys or sleep naked with each other.

According to a survey couples who sleep naked are happiest in their relationship. So take a minute and strip down before bedtime (and don’t forget to say good night).

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