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In today's scenario, being in a relationship is what everyone craves for but have you ever come across a person who wants to be in a "Femdom Relationship

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In today’s scenario, being in a relationship is what everyone craves for but have you ever come across a person who wants to be in a “Femdom Relationship”? Well, you might have never come across such a person because the term “Femdom Relationship” is not known by many. So, if you are new to this term and want to know what exactly this means, then this article has got you covered. In this article, we’ll let you know the meaning of a femdom relationship by relating it with a story that you will definitely like if you have a hidden fantasy of being in such a relationship!

A femdom relation is a relationship that is led by a female partner. In other similar words, we can say that a femdom relation is all about BDSM gears and kink. In such a relation, a female partner makes the male partner obey, and she even dominates him as if he is her servant. This might sound pretty confusing yet exciting for you. So, let’s understand it better with the help of a “Happy Femdom Story of Mason & Bella.”

Mason & Bella Shares a Happy Femdom Story 

Welcome to the happy yet complicated world of mason and Bella, whose college romance ultimately led to marriage and later evolved over the years into a femdom relation that both of them enjoyed being in!

Author: Mason

At the age of six, I played soccer, and I was already very competitive by that time. If any of the girls or boys defeated me on the play, it was not because I let them. But you’ll be amazed to know that when a girl beats me, I immediately had a crush on her.

By the age of early puberty, I realized that my first fantasy is to be in a femdom relationship where I am being controlled by a female partner. But at that time, I have no idea that a femdom relationship really exists. Well, at that time, I thought I was broken and finally kept this fantasy of mine as a secret well into marriage.

Later, in my junior college year, I met Bella. She was an opinionated, passionate and intelligent girl. We both usually discuss in a course we shared, and then we use to go for a coffee together. With each passing day, this became a weekly routine, and I got attracted to her. Within a couple of months, we both started dating each other, and even before completing our graduation, we both got married.

Bella and I were both raised in very traditional and strict families. Bella’s father initially opposed our marriage because, according to him, Bella was too stubborn to be a traditional wife, and he didn’t find me confident enough to be a perfect traditional husband.

Throughout my college life, I was in ROTC and had a military commitment after graduation. It was my dream to work in the military services for about 20 years, and then I wanted to enter the field of politics to chase elected office. But here, our married life took a toll because my military life was hard on Bella. We fought regularly. All this continued for a long and after six years and she finally gave me an ultimatum that either I have to leave the service or else she will leave me. Eventually, I left my service.

A year later, after I returned to civilian life, Bella told me something jaw-dropping. She told me that she had filled the paperwork that is required to run for mayor of our city. Initially, I was jealous when I realized that she would pursue my dream and bitter at her for not sharing it with me earlier. But after Bella won the election, I got to see a side of her that I have never seen before. As a mayor, I found Bella to be a firm, fair executive who flourishes power judiciously and effectively. She was the first female and youngest mayor of our city.

Early in her term, I anyhow gathered the courage to share about my femdom relationship fantasy with her. I told her that I wanted her to have the same level of authority in our life and relationship as she exerts in the professional life. After discussing this multiple times, Bella finally agreed to try this and laid out her own conditions for our arrangement.

Over the next few weeks, Bella shifted some of her responsibilities on my shoulder, and she even destroyed my credit card and made me ask for permission to spend over $25. Not only this, but there were multiple situations where Bella took complete charge. By this time, the most significant change was the energy in our relationship.

When I disclosed my fantasy in front of Bella, I even told her that I wanted to try a list of S/M kinks and enforced chastity. While Bella tried to entertain each item on my wish list, enforced chastity was the only thing that was perfectly maintained. This was one of the most rewarding adjustments that I have to make.

Later Bella told me that under the current arrangement of their relationship, Bella feels wholly empowered to follow her own path both personally and professionally. She even added that she feels liberated from much of the pressure and stress of home life. She now views home and family time as a refuge where she can easily recharge herself instead of seeing it as another area of burdensome responsibilities.

Now, for me, I feel like I am totally free to be my true self. Though I have earned military badges, degrees, or certificates but to me, nothing makes me feel more manly and happy than my wife calling me her “faithful and obedient servant” and listen “I am glad that you belong to me” from Bella’s mouth really makes me feel on the seventh cloud.

Last Few Words

This is how Mason and Bella lived a happily ever after married life even after being in a femdom relationship. So, if you have any such similar fantasy, then take no time to discuss it with your female partner because this is something that she will definitely love to hear! 

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