In a year that has brought heightened stress, it’s almost as if wellness has become the new luxury. On top of the pandemic—along with self-distancing quarantines, remote working and school closings—plus climate change, police violence and social unrest, one of the biggest stressors of the year looms. Over half of Americans expect Election Day to be the most stressful day of their lives thus far this year, according to new research by OnePoll on behalf of Feelmore Labs and Cove.
The New Study
The survey sampled 2,000 Americans between the ages of 18-56 to evaluate their current mental health. More than half (55%) believe that November 3, 2020 will be the tensest day yet this year. Millennials and Gen Xers were more likely to anticipate Election Day to be their most stressful day–at 61% and 58% respectively, whereas only 32% of Baby Boomers shared this sentiment. In addition, 95% of the respondents said that 2020 has negatively impacted their overall health—most notably their sleep patterns (45%) and their ability to focus (44%)—with 75% of respondents believing there is a direct correlation between stress levels and their quality of sleep, and 59% say they can’t imagine being more stressed than they’ve been this year, and 67% just want the year to be over already.
Of course, it’s not just the election that’s cast a pall over 2020. When asked to list the most stressful aspects of this year, 63% of people cited the current Covid-19 pandemic and quarantine—15% more than the number of people who cited the election. Now, 95% say that the stress of 2020 has negatively impacted their overall health—most notably their sleeping patterns (45%), their ability to focus (44%) and their weight (41%). In fact, 44% of respondents said the Covid-19 pandemic has negatively impacted their sleep and 61% would not have considered themselves to be stressed out before the pandemic.
Half of the study participants reported that their stress is so overwhelming, they feel like there’s not enough time in the day to manage it. The survey found that the typical personspends 25 minutes a day actively trying to manage stress with methods that take time and effort, like going for a walk (43%), exercising (38%), and meditating or practicing breathing exercises (30%). However, only 24% are very satisfied with their current solutions and health/wellness practices to help manage stress. As such, 60% say they need a stress-management tool that is easy to use and doesn’t take additional time out of their day.
How To Calm Election Jitters
If you’re one of the many Americans trying to manage the election jitters, stress management is more critically important now than ever. You can feel the exact moment when pressure dumps a tonic of enzymes into your bloodstream, making your heart pound. A tidal wave of adrenaline and cortisol surges through you, hijacking your rational thoughts, leaving your emotions in control. You cower or sizzle on the inside or rant and rave on the outside.
“Particularly during these challenging times, many of us are facing stress, uncertainty, fear and doubt, and it’s negatively impacting our health and wellness,” said Francois Kress, Co-Founder & CEO of Feelmore Labs. “ The quality of our sleep and focus has suffered tremendously, and half the people who we surveyed shared that their stress is so overwhelming, at times it seems truly unmanageable. Now more than ever we need to find a stress management solution that seamlessly fits into our lives in order to help improve our overall well-being.”
Although it’s a challenge to regulate our hair-trigger reactions, it’s possible to douse those primitive firestorms and stay chill under pressure. During these uncertain election times, when you get overwhelmed or frustrated or it looks like things might not turn out the way you hoped, it’s important to get in the habit of bringing your awareness to the present moment through a stress-reduction plan that fits into your daily life. Here are a 8 tips to get your self-care plan fired up:
Don’t Get Hooked On The Suspense. Staying calm when it seems like things around you are falling apart isn’t easy but not impossible, either. On Election Day, chances are there will be many ups-and-downs, not unlike watching a suspenseful movie. Try to stay off the roller coaster to prevent the adrenaline rush. Manage the ups-and-downs by keeping yourself grounded. Don’t take the highs any more seriously than the lows, and don’t take the lows any more seriously than the highs. If necessary, minimize watching news feeds in small bites and watch only enough to keep yourself fully informed. If you’re especially prone to anxiety or sensitive to uncertainty, you might even watch a lighthearted movie on a cable channel and check the election results intermittedly.
Remember H-A-L-T. When election stress takes hold, stop and ask yourself if you’re Hungry, Angry, Lonely, or Tired. When stress overtakes you and pulls you into worry and rumination about the election, this alert signal can bring you back into balance. If one or a combination of the four states is present, slow down, take a few breaths and chill. If you’re hungry, take the time to eat. If you’re angry, address it in a healthy manner. If you’re lonely, reach out to someone you trust. And if you’re tired, rest.
Take An ‘Awe Walk’. An “Awe walk” is a stroll in which you intentionally shift your attention outward (instead of inward) on the awe of nature in a park, the woods or along the seashore. So, you’re not thinking about the election results or the strain with a family member or friend who might be voting differently from you. Research shows that a regular dose of an awe walk reduces your stress, boosts your well-being and promotes your mental health. Read my entire Forbes.com article on this topic, ‘Awe Walks’ Reduce Workday Stress And Boost Your Emotional Well-Being.
Meditate. Neuroscientists have shown that small doses of meditation (as little as five minutes a day) reduces stress, lowers your blood pressure, boosts your immune system and literally rewires key parts of the brain that have to do with self-awareness, focus, stress and compassion. Here’s one of my favorites: Close your eyes and breathe in and out, focusing on each in-breath and each out-breath. Follow your breath through to a full cycle from the beginning of an inhalation where the lungs are full back down to where they’re empty. Then start over again. As you stay with this cycle for five minutes, thoughts usually arise. You might wonder if you’re doing the exercise right, worry about an unfinished project or question if it’s worth your time with everything on your to-do list. Accept anything that arises with open-hardheartedness. Each time your mind wanders off and gets caught in a chain of thought (that’s part of the meditation process), simply step out of the thought stream and gently come back to the sensations of your breath. After five minutes, slowly open your eyelids and take in the colors and textures. Then stretch and breathe into your vivid awareness and notice how much more connected you feel to the moment and how calm, clear-minded and recharged you are to get back to work.
Talk Yourself Off The Ledge. Self-regulation is the ability to stay calm in the middle of a distressing situation. And self-compassion is a powerful stress antidote. Go inside and use positive self-talk with a nurturing tone and comforting words in order to self-soothe your jitters. This might sound cheesy, but science-backed research shows that talking to yourself with a non-first person pronoun or by name has calming effects, just as if you’re holding bedside vigil with a scared friend or family member: “I care about you and am here with you. I’ll stay close to you every step of the way. No matter what happens, I’m right here with you, and we’ll get through election day together.” Remind yourself that when you can’t control what’s happening, once you’ve cast your vote or volunteered at the polls, challenge yourself to control the way you respond to the outcome. That’s where your power lies.
Recharge your batteries. Don’t forget the basics: sleep, exercise and nutrition. Sleep is restorative. When you don’t doze enough, sleep deprivation lowers your resistance to stress and harms your brain. Research shows that lack of sleep interferes with memory and learning. Your brain moves slower. You’re more forgetful. Your attention is short-circuited, and you’re grumpier. Studies also show that regular brisk exercise and healthy foods give you the stamina to withstand election stress and keep you healthy over the long haul. And when was the last time you soaked in a hot bath or indulged in a restorative activity that rejuvenates your mind and body and restores your calm juices? Make a ten or fifteen minute appointment with yourself, and schedule personal time—a hobby, hot bath, manicure, yoga, facial or reading a good book.
Move And Stretch At Your Workstation. Get out of the election thought stream and focus on your body for five or ten minutes. Stand up, breathe deeply, shake, twist and stretch out the built-up tension. Notice the tightness and tension in your body. Take a few seconds to reach high. Let yourself feel the stretch as you elongate your body and notice where you hold tension then release it. Shake the part of your body where you sense tension. As you continue to stretch, bring your attention to each part of your body that has remained tight. Bend over and touch your toes and feel that stretch letting the tension in your body evaporate. Consider taking a short five-minute jog around the block or climb up and down a flight of stairs, all the while staying out of thoughts about the election and focused on your body.
Schedule A Massage. Let the fingers do the walking. Research by psychologists at the University of Konstanz observed higher levels of psychological and physiological relaxation and stress reduction in people after only ten minutes of receiving a massage. Even ten minutes of simple rest increased relaxation, albeit to a lesser degree than massage. And you don’t have to get a professional massage to reduce stress. Having somebody gently stroke your shoulders or even just resting your head on the table for ten minutes effectively reduces stress and boosts your body’s relaxation.
Putting some of these tips into practice—keeping your focus in the present moment, moving at a calm pace, attuning to yourself and your surroundings and accepting without judgment whatever arises in each moment—will land you into your C-Spot: calm, clarity, confidence and centeredness, regardless of the election circumstances.