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Don’t Let Quarantine Ruin Your Life

The coronavirus outbreak may be devastating for people. Fear and anxiety about a disease can cause strong emotions. But a good dose of uncertainty will make you, the people you care about, and your community stronger.

As coronavirus continues to spread around the world, millions of people have found themselves confined to their homes as part of global efforts to curb the spread of the disease.

But for many, the government imposed-quarantine feels like a prison sentence.

And this scenario can tap into our deepest fears of the uncertain, the unknowable, the unforeseen.

As humans, we’re wired for cognitive closure, a desire for firm answers and an aversion toward ambiguity.

Uncertainty can create cognitive dissonance, the discomfort of holding two contradictory thoughts, feelings, or beliefs.

Ironically, though, not being able to deal with uncertainty can be equally distressing.

Infact an intolerance of uncertainty is linked to anxiety and depression.

How do we respond?

Because uncertainty is so painful, we too often seek the quickest resolution of that pain. We flee from the unhappy marriage. Quit the job. Try to escape through denial or addiction. Or, hungering for simple solutions, we bury our heads in the sands of fixed and rigid certainty.

…But there is another way !

Infact now the modern psychological science suggests that uncertainty improves your decisions, helps career change, promotes empathy, and boosts creativity.

In addition to this Jamie Holmes in his book “Nonsense: The Power of Not Knowing” explains that it can also be motivating. A good dose of uncertainty is helpful for your personal and professional life.

So, how do you get better at tolerating it?

Here’s how to up your tolerance to improve your life during a pandemic:

1. Replace expectations with plans

When you form expectations, you’re setting yourself up for disappointment.

You can guide your tomorrow, but you can’t control the exact outcome.

If you expect the worst, you’ll probably feel too negative and closed-minded to notice and seize opportunities. If you expect the best, you’ll create a vision that’s hard to live up to.

Instead of expecting the future to give you something specific, focus on what you’ll do to create what you want to experience.

It helps you to prepare for different possibilities

2. Focus on what you can control and matters

Oftentimes, we overlook the little things we can do to make life easier while obsessing about the big things we can’t do.

When you obsess about a tomorrow you can’t control, you’re too busy judging what hasn’t happened yet to fully experience what’s happening right now.

Instead of noticing and appreciating the beauty in the moment, you get trapped in a fear-driven thought cycle about the potential for discomfort down the line.

So, learning how to properly balance the many decisions on your plate. Allows you to focus your energy on the things that matter and to make more informed choices.

It also removes the unnecessary pressure and distraction caused by a flurry of small worries.

Practising Mindfulness could be a way to focus your energy on what you can control and matters , but it isn’t the only approach

3. Embrace Uncertainty, a little at a time, through novelty

Embracing uncertainty, rather than seeking to banish or ignore it, is in fact the only way to utilize its power.

To mine its vast potential as a source of creativity, authenticity, and personal and professional growth, as salso suggest Hoyt Hilsman and Dennis Palumbo in their book “The Power of Uncertainty”.

To get better at embracing the fuzzy future, try new things.
For example simple ways to get comfortable with uncertainty, perhaps surprisingly, are reading fiction and experiencing multicultural experiences.

Reading short stories or novels invites us inside the worlds and minds of characters unlike ourselves.

Both fiction and multicultural experiences not only lower our need for closure, but help us make better decisions, they also make us more empathetic and fuel creativity, too.

Reading, learning a new language, experiencing another culture — these all present new experiences to your brain, which force you outside of your comfort zone in rewarding ways and finally they are fun.

In conlusion If you think you’ve created a predictable life for yourself, think again.

That’s an illusion. Nothing stays the same forever.

What’s coming tomorrow might fulfill you in ways you didn’t know to imagine.

What’s certain and matter is that it will come and when it gets here, you must be ready to move into another tomorrow full of endless possibilities, focusing on your possibilities, not your fear, and suddenly you’ll feel a lot better.

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