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Dear Husband Sometimes I Love You, Sometimes I Hate You

Dear Husband, Sometimes I Love You

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My husband getting to meet you has brought so many happiness to my life and getting to love and marry you is the greatest life treasure which I can not trade with silver neither gold. Your arrival in my life makes me feel blessed. You came into my world and made everything easy for me to deal with, I can’t imagine my world without your present in it.

Sometimes I travel through the memory lane, I remember the sweet things you have done for me and how much you have sacrifice just to be with me then I come to a conclusion that I can’t love you less, you mean so much to me and much more.

I remember when we were about getting married and you took me home to meet your parent and they were very much against our marriage because of our religion and believe differences, you stood on your ground that it’s either me or no one else, you fought all of them for my sake, you made them see the good side of me, you fought does battle of your parent neglection just to be with me, during my weak period when I feel all is over you are always their by my side, nothing and no one has ever been able to put me down when you are with me, how could I love you less knowing all you have done for me.

I remember quite well when I couldn’t conceive after 3 years of our marriage, you stood by my side, you told me to believe God as he is the best provider, your parent stood against me and they wanted you to divorce me so you can get a fruitful wife but you never yield or for once make me feel sad.

You were my pillar and you are like a guarding angel to me who always fight my battles and always stand by my side on whatever I go through, how could I not love you deeply? For everything you have done for me I can’t describe your worth in my life with words.

I feel like celebrating you everyday and that’s why your birthday as been the best day for me every year cause I get to celebrate you along with your friends and family, that is why aside sending you happy birthday husband wishes I still take it on myself to make the day more special for you but do you know sometimes I hate you.

I hate the way you don’t get angry at me, I hate your perfection, I hate the way you are always over looking my misbehaviors. I hate the fact that I could never go wrong with you. You are too sweet that you make other people in the world look so stone hearted to me because I haven’t come across a man as sweet as you, I hate the fact that you are perfect but you don’t expect perfection from me.

I hate that you love our children so much and now they all love you more than the way they love me; you have taken it upon yourself to meet our needs before you fetch for yours. Mine and your children happiness comes before yours.

How can a man be this perfect and see everyday as a great moment to celebrate his wife? These is the sweet reasons why I hate you but I never want to stop loving and hating you at the same time.

I appreciate the fact that every moment spend with you is like day that has just started anew, a lifetime is too short for you and I. Even in your next life, you are already taken by me. I know nothing last forever but I want to love and hate you forever.

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