Choosing between a bad marriage and a divorce

A bad marriage is painful and nobody knows if divorce is the end of pain. Which one will you choose It is not an easy call.

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If you think materialistically, It depends on your situation. If you can afford a new relationship, a divorce could be considered.

I assume that a bad marriage means an unhappy marriage. In a bad marriage, both spouses always quarrel and can’t agree on anything. I know from my own experience it is terrible. People lose the mental peace quarreling all day long.

I tried to make some arrangements like I lived on my own in a part of the home and she lived in another part and would not see each other. But it did not in this way.

In the end, we stopped having sex. In fact, a sexless marriage is not just a bad marriage but hopeless marriage. Sexless marriage gives less reason to stay in the marriage.

If you are a young person and have a good career, there is no reason to waste time and energy in a bad marriage.

But if you are a middle-aged man or woman and don’t have a good job, you should think twice before making a serious decision.

To be alone long is worse than to be in a bad marriage. It’s not fun sitting alone and have sex fantasies that you can’t accomplish.

If you can’t start a new relationship, you better stay in your lousy marriage.

It is not right to make an emotional decision. You must calculate merits and merits of your existing marriage compared to a divorced life.

You also have to evaluate if there is any chance of improvement of relations.

It is not a good idea to terminate a marriage just because it is terrible

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