Over-preparing! It’s become an epidemic in western society. We are obsessed with organizing our lives. We plan everything, and we plan for everything, with emergency kits, backup plans, exit strategies, safety nets. We can’t imagine failure, so we over-prepare for every conceivable disaster, forgetting to live our lives with a light heart. It’s time to stop over-preparing, time to find balance in life and work, time to start trusting in ourselves.
Whether it’s baby boomers, business people, young entrepreneurs, students or full-time mothers, as a Business and Life Coach I’m finding that my clients pressure themselves with wanting to be perfect.
Perfectionism is the fastest way to lose your balance. Balance in itself is precarious. The moment you let your thinking be overtaken by control, the moment you let yourself become inflexible, you begin to teeter on that delicate scale. That’s when you risk falling over.
Find balance in life and work by trusting yourself. Know that you are doing everything it takes to align your life with your values. Know that
you are building a solid foundation. Know that all your work — physical, emotional and spiritual — is going into sewing your own parachute.
Our parachute is the metaphorical landing gear that protects us when we leap into life. It is the work we have put into preparing ourselves for life — our education, our physical and emotional health, our finances, our professional training and experience, our relationships both with ourselves and with others, and our inner journey.
Stop judging life and circumstances. Instead, live your life with ambition, with pride, with excitement. Test your parachute. Stop over-preparing for the ideal life and find balance in the life and work you have right now. You will find, to your surprise, that it’s already ideal.
Invest in yourself and create your ideal life. When you invest in your own journey you get the best return: YOU as the master of your life.
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Originally published at www.lunacoaching.com on December 13, 2016.
Originally published at medium.com