A Word to the Wise

Has this ever happened to you?

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We’re all guilty of it — moving too fast and missing important stuff.

Making assumptions.

Blaming the other person for not being clear … when WE could have taken just a minute more to truly understand.

I wanted to know how to delete a “favorite” game on a solitaire program on my computer, and I went online to see if anyone else knew. Lots of answers, but no help.

So I wrote to the company.

My question: “How can I delete a ‘favorite’ game?”

And I got a response!


The response: “When you wish to add a game to your list, just click on “Favorites” – “Organize Favorites” The first blue arrow is to add games, the second to remove games from your list.”

Do you see what happened?

And sad to say, I wrote back thanking him but saying he hadn’t read my question.

But neither had I read his whole answer.

My thought for improvement for all of us?

When we answer a question, let’s be sure we START with what was asked. Here, he started with adding, not deleting, so I stopped reading.

That’s on me, by the way, not him.  I could have kept reading; it was only one more sentence … I made an assumption. I was so wrong.

(Yes, I wrote again and apologized for not reading his whole answer. )

Has this ever happened to you? What would you suggest we do in the future?

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