Community//

7 Tips to Handle a Stressful Day

Stress is a part of life, but implementing these 7 tips can help manage it in a productive way.

Stress is part of life and is something we will encounter from time to time. But there are things that can be done to mitigate its appearance and how it affects our daily life. While some stressful situations are unavoidable, others are, and take a shift in perception to help handle them effectively.

Without getting too entrenched in psychological terminology, stress can be broken down into three different categories: acute stress, episodic acute stress, and chronic stress.

Acute stress is short term, such as the anxiety felt after a car accident, whereas episodic acute stress is associated with people who suffer from acute stress frequently, and in summary, are people who are always in a rush but are always late. The third kind of stress causes chronic problems, hence the name, and comes when a person never sees a way out of a bad situation. Chronic stress can lead to heart attacks, a weakened immune system, fertility problems, and various other serious effects.

Regardless of what kind of stress you may have endured today, following these tips can help give you the tools to manage all forms of stress and stressful situations.

Stop

Pause. Halt. Whatever you want to call it. Chances are if you are wrapped up in stress, it is consuming your thoughts and clouding your decision-making abilities. Stop what you’re doing and take a seat (perhaps on a comfy chair).

Breathe

Breathing exercises help you relax because they make your body feel like it already is relaxed, thus sending a message to your brain to calm down. If you need some direction, The University of Michigan has a great list of breathing exercises to help encourage relaxation. Others find meditation helpful, and with so many apps, like Calm, Headspace, and Simply Being, there is definitely something out there for you.

Write

It may seem like an old-school solution to stress, but there is an odd satisfaction when checking something off a list. The most effective lists are ones that note all tasks, when they need to be completed, and their level of priority. If you encountered a stressful situation that does not require any actionable items, consider journaling describing how you felt, what happened, what you wish happened, and ways to handle it differently. In a world of typing, writing can be more cathartic.

Evaluate

Now you are (hopefully) calm, with a list in hand, and ready to evaluate what is written. Do you need help to complete any of the tasks? Are you being realistic? What time of day are you going to be most productive? Note the vital steps necessary to complete each task as this can help break down big tasks into smaller, easier to-do’s!

Prioritize

Prioritizing tasks can help rid yourself of the looming feeling of being overwhelmed. Prioritize what needs to be done today, tomorrow, and which tasks are long term. Consider tackling the menial, quick tasks in your downtime to get them off the list as soon as possible.

Soothe

At this point, you’ve had a stressful day or dealt with a stressful situation and tackled items 1 through 5. Now, it’s time to soothe. It could be a bath instead of a shower, reading a chapter of your favorite book before bed, scrolling on Instagram for 30 minutes, or watching another episode of WestWorld. Take some to yourself, it’s important to feel recharged.

Take Action

After recharging, it’s time to put your plan into action. Start and end your day with an intention of productivity and positivity and you’ll be amazed at how much of your list you can tackle.

Stress is a part of life, but a part of life that can be managed and handled in a positive way. All three types of stress may make their appearance in your life and each offers their own struggle, challenging you to think critically to help mitigate its effects. The next time you find yourself overwhelmed, implementing these 7 tips can make all the difference. 

The Thrive Global Community welcomes voices from many spheres. We publish pieces written by outside contributors with a wide range of opinions, which don’t necessarily reflect our own. Learn more or join us as a community member!
Share your comments below. Please read our commenting guidelines before posting. If you have a concern about a comment, report it here.

Sign up for the Thrive Global newsletter

Will be used in accordance with our privacy policy.

Thrive Global
People look for retreats for themselves, in the country, by the coast, or in the hills . . . There is nowhere that a person can find a more peaceful and trouble-free retreat than in his own mind. . . . So constantly give yourself this retreat, and renew yourself.

- MARCUS AURELIUS

We use cookies on our site to give you the best experience possible. By continuing to browse the site, you agree to this use. For more information on how we use cookies, see our Privacy Policy.