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5 Ways to Feel Self-Fulfilled

Feeling like you’re stuck or something’s missing from you life? Here are 5 steps towards self-fulfillment.

Maybe you are about to graduate college, or maybe you are in the midst of a midlife crisis. Whatever stage you’re at in life, there comes a time for all of us when we might feel a little lost or like something is missing. So what can you do to lose this feeling and to take steps towards self-fulfillment?

1.     Chase Your Dreams

Perhaps your unsettled feelings have been brought on by the sudden realization that this is it: you only get one life to make your dreams come true and live the life you want. Maybe you’ve suddenly realized how short life really is. 

So what are you waiting for? 

Maybe you want to start your own business. What is stopping you, and how can you overcome these barriers? Don’t just assume it is impossible. Take some small steps and do some research to figure out what it would take. 

Do you have a job you just don’t enjoy? Nowadays it is easier than ever to get the education you need so that you can have the career you want. You don’t even have to leave your house. No matter what you want to do, the odds are good you can find an online program. Whether it’s art therapy counseling or getting a masters in civil engineering online, the internet has erased many of the complications that used to stop people from going back to school.

2.     Set and Keep Track of Your Goals

If you don’t have goals, it makes it difficult to measure your progress. Also, setting a goal helps you to stay positive and focus on the little steps that you will have to take to get what you want. And keep in mind that even if you don’t ultimately achieve what you set out to do, just thinking about it can help you to figure out a few things – perhaps you’ll find that you are headed in the wrong direction and that goal wasn’t as important as you thought it was, or maybe you’ll find something you would much rather concentrate on. 

3.     Take Care of Yourself

Even if you are busy following your dreams and goals, you can’t forget to take care of yourself every day. Exercise not only helps you to feel good physically but also mentally, which can help to give you the energy you need to work on your self-fulfillment goals. But exercise doesn’t have to be boring. Maybe going to the gym and walking on a treadmill isn’t for you, but thankfully that’s not the only option. Try yoga, racquetball, or even just a walk after dinner. Just find something you’ll enjoy. It doesn’t have to be high impact to be good for you. 

4.     Don’t Forget To Have Fun

Some people are fine with sitting in front of the TV every night, and sometimes you just need to do nothing. There’s nothing wrong with that! But if you are seeking self-fulfillment, a new hobby can help. There are so many to choose from, you are sure to find one you’ll enjoy once you start looking, one that will occupy your mind and give you a sense of satisfaction and accomplishment. 

5.     Celebrate the Little Successes 

Whether you have started taking walks every day, have started a new hobby, or are working on developing a goal plan to finally make your dreams come true, you should be proud of yourself for taking steps towards improving yourself and working on self-fulfillment. It is a journey not everyone bothers to take. Take the time to note what you’ve gotten done during the day. Those little things add up to big accomplishments over time. You might even think of keeping a goal journal, which can help you see where you have been and where you are headed.

Self-fulfillment doesn’t happen overnight, but taking small steps toward your goals and finding ways to improve yourself is worth it in the end.

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