In working life, we often encounter all kinds of trouble, sadness, anxiety, worry and other emotions come one after another, step by step to force you into unhappiness.
At this point, it is especially important to develop a good mindset.
Today, I share with you four simple but practical life mindsets so that you can have a strong heart and get rid of all the worries and unhappiness.
01Giving thanks for every moment in the present
I used to complain about what troubles I had today and how bad my life was, but I didn’t realize that when I spilled it out, there were people around to comfort me and encourage me, which is actually a blessing.
I should be grateful for the ability to sit down and eat properly every day, for the nice day, and for the cute puppy I met on the road.
Then I tried not to think that these moments were meant to be, and never thought that life was supposed to be like this, making them as special as my troubles.
If it’s not easy to understand, you can think of it like this.
The fact that I can finish this article without incident and that you in front of the screen can read it carefully while a disaster is happening somewhere in the world is a blessing in itself.
By understanding this, we can exist safely in this moment and not worry about the future.
02 You can be sorry about the past, but never let regrets fill the present
“If only we could go back in time and start over”, we often hear this voice in life.
Because for the past, we will always have more or less regret.
But I won’t let myself think that way. Since I’ve come to the present, I’ll try to make the best of the future and not repeat the same mistakes.
If a person regrets from time to time, he or she will definitely lower his or her confidence and expectations for the future.
Suppose you didn’t get into a good university, then finish your education at the moment with the most serious attitude and enrich yourself; suppose you have missed someone, then cherish the people you meet now.
When I was watching a TV series earlier, there was a line that struck me.
Winter misses the verdant summer, and summer will miss the snowy white winter.
Yes, even if you go back to the past, you are not guaranteed to have the most satisfying experience, so it is better to inject all your energy into your life now and live in the present moment in a practical way.
03 Destroying bad luck with more luck
I often have the thought that when I feel unlucky in something, there must also be another side of me that makes me feel lucky.
For example. Although the dormitory is on the 6th floor, it is very tiring to climb up, but fortunately my roommates are very nice and I am happy to live in such a dormitory, so what does it matter if I am tired.
Or I forgot to bring something in the morning, but luckily, I got the cake I’ve been wanting to eat today without waiting in a long line, so I was super happy.
Although I was tired from all the activities I attended, I met so many interesting people, it was worth it!
Sometimes life is like this, think of the good things, you will find that a lot of life’s luck is actually around us, just lack of a pair of eyes to find.
The pain in life is more stimulating to our hearts, so we always think of the bad, just turn it around and look at things in a good way, you will feel more happiness.
When you are more able to perceive the fortune in life, you master the secret of happiness and most of the unhappiness will be replaced by happiness.
04 Stay confident and courageous
Although it is difficult to be a very confident person, and we are nervous in most situations where we need to exude confidence, at least we should not run away from it.
When faced with a new challenge, replace “how to avoid it” with “how to do it well”.When you encounter a rare opportunity, muster up the courage to overcome it.You will find that confidence and courage are the boosters of our success.
I’m sure we’ve all heard the joke: “As long as you’re not embarrassed, embarrassed is someone else”, and that’s a valid point. Because people are always attracted to people who are confident, the mistakes they make are more likely to be overlooked.
We may meet the audience we face on the stage once in our lifetime, so don’t be afraid to gather the courage to show yourself.I believe that confidence gives us better opportunities and courage makes it easier for us to make changes.
Thank you for seeing the last of you, I hope we can all live a happy life and grow more and more smoothly on the road of growth!Finally, one more rant.”It’s never wrong to be bold and do those things that make you happy.”