To thine own self be true. -W. Shakespeare, Polonius in Hamlet
As members of modern society and pop culture, we have an obsession with living an authentic life. What does it mean to live authentically and in alignment, anyway?
When meeting with clients for the first time, I ask them this question: “Who are you?” I receive responses and phrases like, “I’m a dad of three… I’m a business owner… I run a multi-million dollar consulting firm…” and so on. As our work progresses, I’ll ask the question again, and the responses to this question change drastically given the nature of our work together.
Living in alignment, or living authentically, requires that we know who we are. When we don’t know who we are, what we stand for, or what our intentions are during our short time here on this earth, we are living in an aimless pursuit of happiness. We get lost. We think we should pursue happiness, but that leads to empty bouts of project pursuits. If we want to live a fulfilling life – not just simply a happy life – we need to know the answer to the question, Who am I? But before we can answer this question, we have to learn to take off our masks.
How can you tell if you’re wearing a mask?
If any of the above sounds like you, it may be that you haven’t been so honest with yourself. Are you just going through the motions, because you’re expected to behave a certain way? You live your life the way you’re supposed to – because that’s just what everyone else does? Don’t wait till you’ve wasted your life wearing a mask. Eventually it gets stifling, but you learn to live with it anyway. And that’s the greatest tragedy in life. In fact, it’s the number one regret people have on their deathbeds. You may be living with that mask on because someone once told you life was supposed to be hard.
If you haven’t been living authentically – true to yourself – I invite you to take the first step to walking away from that life. Ask yourself, Who am I? Not what defines you on paper, but who you really are. When I ask myself that same question, the resounding words, Bold, Vibrant, and Visionary, ring in my ears. Write yours down, and remind yourself to look at them every day. Don’t forget that you are the creator of your life – you get to choose who to be in this world. Don’t give that power to others. You’re the protector of your dreams, and in order to live your dreams, you have to start by taking off that mask.
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Your life is your gift. Don’t waste it. #SingularPresence
Originally published at www.urlifeinspired.com