15 Ridiculous Things Said to People with Injuries

I recently asked people in injury communities about the most ridiculous things people have said to them.

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Group of people laughing but one person looks very uncomfortable!
Here’s what they shared…
1. “It’s been a week! Why are you still milking it?”
2. “Oh, I didn’t know that pain would be involved with the surgery.”
3. “Thanks for pretending you injured yourself in the [volleyball] game so we don’t have to play anymore.” I did not pretend my ACL was torn.
4. “I thought that you meant that you injured yourself at the ACL music festival.”
5. “How did you do it? I do not understand how you broke 4 bones falling off bike, that’s not possible.”
6. A guy I see regularly where I walk always says, Where’s your parrot? Has he flown off?”
7. After explaining that I’d torn the ACL in my knee, “Oh I’ve had a sprained ankle before.”
8. “At least you have a good story!”
9. “I was back to running 6 months after my operation. You’re just being lazy.”
10. Someone said I didn’t have enough muscle in my legs because I am a girl and I should have built them up more if I didn’t want to hurt myself! (I just had a really bad landing after a jump while skiing. It would have happened to anyone.)
11. “Why do you need an op? Just go for massage.”
12, “Why don’t you try this essential oil? It worked for me when my knee was bugging me, and that swelling will go right down!”. Not knocking essential oils by any means, but my swelling was due to a ruptured ACL, MCL, meniscus tear, swollen cartilage and bone marrow leaking out of my tibia and femur.
13. When I broke my wrist skateboarding someone asked me whether I eat enough dairy… Somehow I don’t think that was going to help much.
14. “That’s it! You should really stop playing sport now. You’re not as young as you used to be.” I turn 31 this year! B*tch please.
15. “Hey do you want to go for a run/hike/play badminton?” Everyone keeps forgetting I have this injury!

Ridiculous things can be funny sometimes

Some of these ridiculous things said to people are kind of funny and some are plain wrong.

Humour (for example jokes or light teasing where everyone knows that whatever is said is in a loving way) is one thing that can help us all deal with the challenges in our lives. It can build connection and strengthen relationships.

According to Tasha Eurich, an organisational psychologist, “When we laugh, our bodies release endorphins and dopamine, nature’s feel-good chemicals. The result? We can better cope with stress, find hope, and see problems in new ways“.

Some of these ridiculous things, said flippantly to someone who’s really struggling, can have the opposite effect and be remembered for months, years or even a lifetime. No one should make sexist (or other discriminatory) comments. And telling someone they are being lazy or should not aspire to getting back to sport is rude and judgemental.

What has someone said to you? Did you find it funny or did you not like it? Comment below, I’d love to see.

A couple of tips on what to say to someone who’s injured

If you’re not injured but know someone who is, ask them how they’re doing today and how you can help them. Can you offer to take them out to do something fun like see a movie or go to a park where dogs play?

They’ll probably appreciate your genuine empathy. And if they don’t respond or can’t accept your help right now (as many people often feel bad asking for help), let them know you’re there for them. Check back in again a few days later.

And if you think they are having a hard time, tell them about us here at Recover from Injury.

Here are a few other articles you might find interesting:

Pain: What You Need to Know and 4 Things to Start Doing Now for a Better Recovery

Thanks to the people in the Recover and Thrive After Injury and ACL Recovery Club Facebook groups for sharing your stories.

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