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15 Practices for Staying on the Path of Mastery

Immerse yourself deeply in the process of growth and development and enlarge your life.

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True masters of craft realize that their journey has no end. The best — be it athletes, artists, entrepreneurs, physicians, writers, or business professionals — have at least one thing in common: they are all constantly focused on getting better. That’s precisely what makes them the best. Their goal is their path and their path is their goal. They are every bit as concerned with being peak people as they are with being peak performers.

Some call this orientation mastery. Staying on its path is not easy. But it is rewarding. Immersing yourself deeply in the process of growth and development for growth and development’s sake is a wonderful way to enrich and enlarge your life.

Below are 15 key practices of mastery. Think of them as modes of being and doing, as ways of engaging with both your interior and exterior worlds. These practices serve as the foundation — the pavement, if you will — for your ongoing path.

CARING

If you really care about what you do you’ll put your all into it. If you really care about the people with whom you interact you’ll put your all into them. Caring serves as the cutting edge of personal and social evolution. Caring is quality. Caring is love. You’ve got to care.

HEALTH

Health is multidimensional. It is physical and mental and emotional and spiritual. It is also integral to lasting progress. It is true that you can burn bright for a while without a foundation of health, but keep existing in this way and eventually you’ll burnout. Sacrificing health is myopic. The long-game requires it.

HUMILITY

Once you think you know you cease to keep knowing. Once you think you’re good you cease to keep getting better. But there is always more to know. Always room to get better. Without humility there can be no growth.

STRESS

In a scientific sense, stress is a stimulus for growth. Without stress living organisms don’t adapt, don’t change. So you need stress. But stress is only beneficial in the right dose and when you have the capacity, resources, and support to absorb it. And stress is only valuable when it’s followed by rest.

REST

The space during which growth occurs. Without rest, we stand no chance at absorbing and growing from challenges we face. Stress + rest = growth. If you want to develop your body, mind, or soul you’ve got to understand that rest — that simply “being” — is every bit as important as doing.

CONSISTENCY

Show up, even when you don’t want to. Doing so makes you better not only at your craft — via compounding gains — but also at the skill of exerting effort itself. The path of mastery isn’t about being consistently great. It’s about being great at being consistent.

CONFIDENCE

A first cousin to humility. It’s knowing, based on a body of evidence, what you can and can’t do, and then moving forward accordingly. Confidence isn’t something that you have or you don’t. It’s not something you’re born with. Confidence is something you build.

COACHING

A coach is there to see what you don’t see and to point you in the direction of growth. The best coaching relationships are rooted in shared humility and caring. A good coach doesn’t just show or tell. They walk with with you on your path — sometimes leading and sometimes following.

COMMUNITY

Research shows that the people with whom you surround yourself influence your performance and wellbeing by up to 30 percent. When things are going well community pushes you and celebrates you and keeps you grounded. When things aren’t going well a tribe of support is everything.

DRIVE

Drive means relentless pursuit. Often born out of insecurity, at its best it’s fueled by love. Drive must be channeled. It can be productive and beautiful and enlarging when pointed toward growth and development. It can be destructive and diminishing when pointed at external validation. The best drive comes from the inside.

PATIENCE

Patience is letting things happen instead of making them happen. Not to be confused with passivity, patience is about persistence. Gentle persistence. It’s about surrendering to a process and being present as it unfolds. Staying on the path of mastery in any endeavor requires patience.

TOUGHNESS

Toughness is about doing the hard thing because it’s the right thing. Sometimes this means putting your head down and grinding it out. Other times this means backing off and asking for help. Toughness lives on the inside. The people who don’t act tough are generally the toughest of all.

ACCEPTANCE

You’ve got to be honest — and okay — with yourself. Acceptance does not mean doing nothing but rather acknowledging and starting where you are. Not where you think you should be. Not where you want to be. Where you are. Because if you don’t start where you are, you’ll never really get anywhere.

PRESENCE

In many ways, presence is synonymous with peak performance. When you are fully there — completely immersed in your pursuit with concentrated attention — you are almost always at your best. Practicing presence leads to a better body of work and a richer, more textured life.

VULNERABILITY

Vulnerability starts with being honest with yourself. Why are you doing what you’re doing? What are you seeking? What could you be doing better? Are you open to receiving help? Answering these questions — being vulnerable — is uncomfortable. But being uncomfortable leads to growth.

Thanks for reading! If you found this valuable, please follow follow me on Twitter @Bstulberg, where I share tips like the ones above daily.

Also, check out my book: Peak Performance: Elevate Your Game, Avoid Burnout, and Thrive with the New Science of Success.

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